Case #73808 Work

My manager messages me on WhatsApp at 10pm. Can I just ignore it?

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12,639 jurors ยท 497 asked for more information

The complainant 84%
The manager 4%
Both 11%
Neither 1%

Top jury comment

'I don't expect replies' followed by 'you don't seem very responsive' in a review. Pick one.

1,900 agree

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The complainant says

My contract says 9 to 5.30. My manager added the team to a WhatsApp group 'for quick things' and now sends messages there most evenings, sometimes as late as 10 or 11pm, often asking for things 'first thing tomorrow'.

I've stopped replying after work hours and deal with messages at 9am. My manager mentioned in my one-to-one that I 'don't seem very responsive' and that others reply in the evening. I'm not paid for evening work and I'm not on call.

The other side says the manager, as the complainant tells it

My manager says they don't expect replies at night, they just send messages when they think of them so they don't forget. They say the comment in the one-to-one was about general communication, not specifically evenings.

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  1. Juror 1434 Voted: The complainant

    'I don't expect replies' followed by 'you don't seem very responsive' in a review. Pick one.

    1,900 Agree 500 Funny 3 Hmm
  2. Juror 3053 Voted: The complainant

    Scheduled send exists. Your manager can think of it at 10pm and send it at 9am.

    1,300 Agree 40 Funny 4 Hmm
    1. Juror 7196 Voted: The complainant

      This is the answer. Suggest it as a 'tip' in your next one to one.

      500 Agree 60 Funny 2 Hmm
  3. Juror 8815 Voted: The complainant

    Keep a note of every message time. If this ever affects your review you'll want it.

    720 Agree 2 Funny 6 Hmm
  4. Juror 3958 Voted: Both have a point

    They probably aren't a monster, just badly organised. But the one to one comment crosses the line.

    480 Agree 1 Funny 20 Hmm

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