Case #16464 Work

Who's wrong: me for eating fish at my desk, or my colleague for complaining to our manager?

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10,220 jurors ยท 624 asked for more information

The complainant 33%
The colleague 29%
Both 36%
Neither 2%

Top jury comment

Microwaved fish in an office is a crime against colleagues. Not a real crime, but still.

1,300 agree

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The complainant says

Our office doesn't have a proper kitchen, just a kettle and a microwave, and there's nowhere to sit except our desks. I bring leftovers for lunch to save money, and a couple of times a week that's salmon or a fish curry, which I heat up in the microwave.

A colleague who sits opposite me complained to our manager that the smell makes her feel sick. Rather than talk to me, she went straight to the manager, who then had an awkward chat with me. I felt embarrassed and a bit ambushed.

The other side says the colleague, as the complainant tells it

She says she has mentioned it before in a jokey way and I didn't take the hint. She says she gets bad nausea, the smell lingers all afternoon, and she didn't feel comfortable raising it directly again.

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  1. Juror 3898 Voted: The colleague

    Microwaved fish in an office is a crime against colleagues. Not a real crime, but still.

    1,300 Agree 1,600 Funny 8 Hmm
  2. Juror 9660 Voted: Both have a point

    Both a bit wrong. Fish smell is real, and so is the ambush.

    900 Agree 10 Funny 10 Hmm
    1. Juror 2279 Voted: Both have a point

      Bring the fish cold, she talks to you directly next time. Done.

      500 Agree 40 Funny 3 Hmm
  3. Juror 6422 Voted: Neither of them

    If there's nowhere else to eat, the company should sort out a space. This is a facilities problem pretending to be a people problem.

    880 Agree 6 Funny 15 Hmm
  4. Juror 5517 Voted: The complainant

    Jokey hints don't count as raising something. Going to the manager first was over the top.

    760 Agree 20 Funny 20 Hmm
  5. Juror 8041 Voted: Both have a point

    Cold salmon is actually lovely. Just saying.

    300 Agree 210 Funny 30 Hmm

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