Case #16625 Family

My dad wants me to take the family dog when I move out. Do I have to?

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7,304 jurors Β· 215 asked for more information

The complainant 68%
The dad 9%
Both 22%
Neither 1%

Top jury comment

A promise made at 14 is not a binding contract. Also, the dog's welfare comes first and a one-bed flat with no garden isn't it.

1,200 agree

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The complainant says

I'm 24 and moving into my first flat. We got a Labrador when I was 14, and technically he was 'my' dog because I begged for him. Since then, the whole family has looked after him. He's now ten.

My dad has said that since he was always my dog, he should come with me. My new flat is a one-bed with no garden, the landlord doesn't allow pets, and I work in an office all day. I love him, but it wouldn't be fair on him.

The other side says the dad, as the complainant tells it

My dad says I promised to take responsibility for the dog at 14, he never wanted one, and that he and my mum want to be able to travel now the kids have left home. He thinks I'm backing out of a commitment.

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  1. Juror 9171 Voted: The complainant

    A promise made at 14 is not a binding contract. Also, the dog's welfare comes first and a one-bed flat with no garden isn't it.

    1,200 Agree 10 Funny 5 Hmm
  2. Juror 3409 Voted: Both have a point

    Maybe you help pay for a dog sitter when they travel? Middle ground.

    880 Agree 2 Funny 8 Hmm
    1. Juror 1790 Voted: Both have a point

      This is really kind and fair.

      230 Agree 1 Funny 1 Hmm
  3. Juror 7552 Voted: The complainant

    Your dad's had ten years to get used to the dog. He's family now, and families share a dog.

    760 Agree 30 Funny 6 Hmm
  4. Juror 6647 Voted: The complainant

    A ten year old Lab alone in a flat all day would be miserable. You're right.

    600 Agree 2 Funny 2 Hmm

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