Case #68183 Friendship

My friend asked me to be her plus-one and then made me pay for the hotel. Who's wrong?

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6,950 jurors ยท 343 asked for more information

The complainant 43%
The friend 29%
Both 27%
Neither 1%

Top jury comment

Half the hotel feels normal. Half the fuel for a trip you only made as a favour feels cheeky.

870 agree

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The complainant says

A friend was invited to a wedding and her partner couldn't go, so she asked me to be her plus-one. She sold it as a free fun weekend away. I took a day off work and bought a new outfit.

After the wedding she sent me a request for half the hotel room, ยฃ140, plus half the fuel. I had assumed, since she invited me as a favour to her, that the room was covered. She says it's obvious that adults split a room.

The other side says the friend, as the complainant tells it

She says she never said the weekend was free, just that food and drink at the wedding were covered. She says I got a weekend away, a free three-course meal and an open bar, and splitting accommodation is standard between friends.

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  1. Juror 3457 Voted: Both have a point

    Half the hotel feels normal. Half the fuel for a trip you only made as a favour feels cheeky.

    870 Agree 30 Funny 25 Hmm
  2. Juror 1838 Voted: The complainant

    This should have been said upfront. Surprise invoices ruin friendships.

    760 Agree 4 Funny 8 Hmm
  3. Juror 9219 Voted: The friend

    Free three course meal and an open bar is actually a pretty good deal for ยฃ140 and a new outfit.

    520 Agree 90 Funny 40 Hmm
    1. Juror 7600 Voted: The complainant

      Plus a day's annual leave. People forget that one.

      260 Agree 3 Funny 10 Hmm
  4. Juror 9933 Voted: Both have a point

    Pay the hotel, gently push back on fuel, and next time get the costs in writing before you say yes.

    430 Agree 12 Funny 6 Hmm

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