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Missing it for a best friend's stag is understandable. Not noticing it's your anniversary is the real problem.
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Our fifth anniversary is in June. Two months ago I mentioned I'd like to do something special for it. Last week my partner told me he's booked a four-night trip abroad with his friends for a stag do, leaving the day before our anniversary.
He says he just didn't check the date. I said he could have looked at a calendar before paying, and that forgetting a fifth anniversary hurts. He says we can celebrate the weekend after and I'm making it a bigger deal than it needs to be.
He says the stag date was set by someone else and he couldn't miss his best friend's stag. He booked quickly because flights were going up. He's offered to plan a nice weekend away when he's back and thinks the date itself matters less than the celebration.
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Missing it for a best friend's stag is understandable. Not noticing it's your anniversary is the real problem.
If he genuinely plans a lovely weekend after, I think that's a decent outcome.
Only if HE plans it. Not you plans it and he turns up.
Fifth anniversary! Some things you just remember.
The stag date is outside his control. You should be annoyed at the groom, honestly.