Case #71058 Everyday life

Should you give up your seat on the train if you've booked it and someone asks?

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10,048 jurors ยท 309 asked for more information

The complainant 84%
The other passenger 6%
Both 9%
Neither 1%

Top jury comment

You booked it, you need it for a medical reason, you said no politely. Nothing to see here.

1,500 agree

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The complainant says

I booked a forward-facing window seat on a busy three-hour train journey, two weeks in advance, because I get motion sick facing backwards. A woman got on with her teenage son and asked me to swap to a seat further down the carriage so they could sit together.

The other seat was backwards-facing and in the middle. I explained about the motion sickness and politely said no. She said I was being unkind and several people looked at me.

The other side says the other passenger, as the complainant tells it

She says she booked late because of a family emergency and just wanted to sit with her son. She thinks most people would swap to help a parent.

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Jury discussion (5 comments)

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  1. Juror 5735 Voted: The complainant

    Her son is a teenager, not a toddler. He can survive three hours a few rows away.

    1,300 Agree 300 Funny 4 Hmm
  2. Juror 4116 Voted: The complainant

    You booked it, you need it for a medical reason, you said no politely. Nothing to see here.

    1,500 Agree 5 Funny 3 Hmm
  3. Juror 8973 Voted: The complainant

    Honestly I'd swap if it was like for like. Backwards middle seat is not like for like.

    700 Agree 10 Funny 5 Hmm
    1. Juror 6640 Voted: The complainant

      Like for like is the golden rule of seat swaps.

      300 Agree 50 Funny 1 Hmm
  4. Juror 7354 Voted: The complainant

    A family emergency changes the vibe a bit, but still, not at the cost of you being sick.

    600 Agree 2 Funny 15 Hmm

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