Case #55995 Flatmates

Is it rude to ask a flatmate to stop singing in the shower at 6am?

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6,204 jurors Β· 365 asked for more information

The complainant 47%
The flatmate 18%
Both 34%
Neither 1%

Top jury comment

'The only time of day they feel happy' is so bleak and so funny at the same time.

880 agree

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The complainant says

My flatmate starts work early and showers at 6am. Every morning, without fail, they sing. Not humming. Full musical theatre, with key changes. Our bathroom shares a wall with my bedroom and I don't need to be up until 7:30.

I've started sleeping with earplugs but they fall out. I asked them, politely and with a laugh, if they could maybe keep the concerts to the evenings. They looked genuinely hurt and said it's the only time of day they feel happy.

The other side says the flatmate, as the complainant tells it

They say singing in the shower is a normal human thing, it only lasts about ten minutes, and they're not going to shower in silence in their own home. They suggested I move my bed to the other wall.

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  1. Juror 6029 Voted: Both have a point

    'The only time of day they feel happy' is so bleak and so funny at the same time.

    880 Agree 1,020 Funny 40 Hmm
  2. Juror 1172 Voted: Both have a point

    Compromise: they get one song. One. And no big finish.

    610 Agree 400 Funny 3 Hmm
    1. Juror 8553 Voted: The flatmate

      The big finish is the whole point though

      150 Agree 260 Funny 2 Hmm
  3. Juror 4410 Voted: The complainant

    Ten minutes of singing at 6am through a wall is a lot. Humming, fine. Key changes, no.

    540 Agree 180 Funny 5 Hmm
  4. Juror 2791 Voted: The flatmate

    Honestly moving the bed isn't a terrible suggestion.

    320 Agree 12 Funny 50 Hmm
  5. Juror 6934 Voted: Both have a point

    Get them a waterproof speaker so they sing along quietly instead of carrying the whole show.

    210 Agree 30 Funny 60 Hmm

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